Articulus I
Whether to Be Loved Is More Proper to Charity Than to Love?
Arg. 1 Objection 1
Ad primum sic proceditur. Videtur quod caritatis magis sit proprium amari quam amare. Caritas enim in melioribus melior invenitur. Sed meliores debent magis amari. Ergo caritatis magis est proprium amari.
It would seem that it is more proper to charity to be loved than to love. For the better charity is to be found in those who are themselves better. But those who are better should be more loved. Therefore to be loved is more proper to charity.
Arg. 2 Objection 2
Praeterea, illud quod in pluribus invenitur videtur esse magis conveniens naturae, et per consequens melius. Sed sicut dicit philosophus, in VIII Ethic., multi magis volunt amari quam amare, propter quod amatores adulationis sunt multi. Ergo melius est amari quam amare, et per consequens magis conveniens caritati.
Further, that which is to be found in more subjects seems to be more in keeping with nature, and, for that reason, better. Now, as the Philosopher says (Ethic. viii, 8), "many would rather be loved than love, and lovers of flattery always abound." Therefore it is better to be loved than to love, and consequently it is more in keeping with charity.
Arg. 3 Objection 3
Praeterea, propter quod unumquodque, illud magis. Sed homines propter hoc quod amantur, amant, dicit enim Augustinus, in libro de Catechiz. Rud., quod nulla est maior provocatio ad amandum quam praevenire amando. Ergo caritas magis consistit in amari quam in amare.
Further, "the cause of anything being such is yet more so." Now men love because they are loved, for Augustine says (De Catech. Rud. iv) that "nothing incites another more to love you than that you love him first." Therefore charity consists in being loved rather than in loving.
Sed contra On the contrary
Sed contra est quod philosophus dicit, in VIII Ethic., quod magis existit amicitia in amare quam in amari. Sed caritas est amicitia quaedam. Ergo caritas magis consistit in amare quam in amari.
On the contrary, The Philosopher says (Ethic. viii, 8) that friendship consists in loving rather than in being loved. Now charity is a kind of friendship. Therefore it consists in loving rather than in being loved.
Respondeo I answer that
Respondeo dicendum quod amare convenit caritati inquantum est caritas. Caritas enim, cum sit virtus quaedam, secundum suam essentiam habet inclinationem ad proprium actum. Amari autem non est actus caritatis ipsius qui amatur, sed actus caritatis eius est amare; amari autem competit ei secundum communem rationem boni, prout scilicet ad eius bonum alius per actum caritatis movetur. Unde manifestum est quod caritati magis convenit amare quam amari, magis enim convenit unicuique quod convenit ei per se et substantialiter quam quod convenit ei per aliud. Et huius duplex est signum. Primum quidem, quia amici magis laudantur ex hoc quod amant quam ex hoc quod amantur, quinimmo si non amant et amentur, vituperantur. Secundo, quia matres, quae maxime amant, plus quaerunt amare quam amari, quaedam enim, ut philosophus dicit, in eodem libro, filios suos dant nutrici, et amant quidem, reamari autem non quaerunt, si non contingat.
I answer that, To love belongs to charity as charity. For, since charity is a virtue, by its very essence it has an inclination to its proper act. Now to be loved is not the act of the charity of the person loved; for this act is to love: and to be loved is competent to him as coming under the common notion of good, in so far as another tends towards his good by an act of charity. Hence it is clear that to love is more proper to charity than to be loved: for that which befits a thing by reason of itself and its essence is more competent to it than that which is befitting to it by reason of something else. This can be exemplified in two ways. First, in the fact that friends are more commended for loving than for being loved, indeed, if they be loved and yet love not, they are blamed. Secondly, because a mother, whose love is the greatest, seeks rather to love than to be loved: for "some women," as the Philosopher observes (Ethic. viii, 8) "entrust their children to a nurse; they do love them indeed, yet seek not to be loved in return, if they happen not to be loved."
Ad 1 Reply to Objection 1
Ad primum ergo dicendum quod meliores ex eo quod meliores sunt, sunt magis amabiles. Sed ex eo quod in eis est perfectior caritas, sunt magis amantes, secundum tamen proportionem amati. Non enim melior minus amat id quod infra ipsum est quam amabile sit, sed ille qui est minus bonus non attingit ad amandum meliorem quantum amabilis est.
A better man, through being better, is more lovable; but through having more perfect charity, loves more. He loves more, however, in proportion to the person he loves. For a better man does not love that which is beneath him less than it ought to be loved: whereas he who is less good fails to love one who is better, as much as he ought to be loved.
Ad 2 Reply to Objection 2
Ad secundum dicendum quod, sicut philosophus dicit ibidem, homines volunt amari inquantum volunt honorari. Sicut enim honor exhibetur alicui ut quoddam testimonium boni in ipso qui honoratur, ita per hoc quod aliquis amatur ostenditur in ipso esse aliquod bonum, quia solum bonum amabile est. Sic igitur amari et honorari quaerunt homines propter aliud, scilicet ad manifestationem boni in amato existentis. Amare autem quaerunt caritatem habentes secundum se, quasi ipsum sit bonum caritatis, sicut et quilibet actus virtutis est bonum virtutis illius. Unde magis pertinet ad caritatem velle amare quam velle amari.
As the Philosopher says (Ethic. viii, 8), "men wish to be loved in as much as they wish to be honored." For just as honor is bestowed on a man in order to bear witness to the good which is in him, so by being loved a man is shown to have some good, since good alone is lovable. Accordingly men seek to be loved and to be honored, for the sake of something else, viz. to make known the good which is in the person loved. On the other hand, those who have charity seek to love for the sake of loving, as though this were itself the good of charity, even as the act of any virtue is that virtue's good. Hence it is more proper to charity to wish to love than to wish to be loved.
Ad 3 Reply to Objection 3
Ad tertium dicendum quod propter amari aliqui amant, non ita quod amari sit finis eius quod est amare, sed eo quod est via quaedam ad hoc inducens quod homo amet.
Some love on account of being loved, not so that to be loved is the end of their loving, but because it is a kind of way leading a man to love.